yeah, but the option to do that on the sites editor does not allow me to do that.

maybe if i show you a pic it would be easier to explain.
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see where i have placed 000000 in those boxes, they do absolutely nothing. Those input boxes where mostly all blank except for the 2nd and 3rd text which is the color of the admin and moderators name colors.

The site seems to be getting it's template and colors from that Style Sheets BlueFi3D.CSS file

Adding the colors to the box don't make them appear on the site.

So I am asking if there is something I can do to actually make the colors i've selected take over from the CSS file.

Go into the basic style the damn style that comes with phpBB.. There should be words next to each setting telling you what does what...

do you have ftp with your host? if so look in that for the style.css