I'm not really sure what you mean by different there but everyone is entitled to their opinion. It's really meant as a graphic to show that the site is for everyone and also meant to demostrate that its helpful in our daily lives instead of during times of conflict.

I will eventually be replacing it with a flash banner that does more of what I need but thats when I actually move to a new webhost. The theme of this site isn't about flashiness, eye candy or entertainment, it's a place to come to terms with yourself. My memberslist ranges from 10 years old to just under 60 so I beleive its a must to have a clean, clutter free, and easily naviated environment to encourage discussion, not detract from it.

Thanks.