Thank you marty for attempting to help. I am trying to do a fresh re-install of phpmychat for the forum. In order for me to do this, cpanel wants me to delete the old forum which, I can't because of file:

.pureftpd-upload.4557e05f.15.5a36.bf899dc7

which has resided in the forums folder now for 2 1/2 days. It will not allow me to delete the forum, at all. Cpanel has no options for me to delete the entire forum. I'm literally stuck.

So, my question is, how do I best do this? Should I start a whole new forum like name it forum2 (or whatever) and try it that way? I was just hoping I could delete the whole OLD forum, reinstall and then install nuke then the theme...make sense?