I glad and flattered you like our clan site (BestInTactics) as myself and LILLTALK worked hard on building it from the ground up. I myself am the one who built the animations you seem to favor.

As far as the header goes...we own that. Those images are from my deployments to the Middle East and I would appreciate it if you didn't steal them.

Good luck in your search, and I'm sure with time and effort you can creat an original theme that no one can say they have seen before.