Please don't be offended, but there is only so much I can do. A customization of the sort you are looking for is jyst that, a customization. You're going to have to learn as you go.
More than likely you will figure it out, it will just take sometime.
The actual specific things you asked about in the other post are all possible, but I personally have never tried it. I really don't have the time to do so either :?

mikem