HAAA HA HAAAA (in the mad scientist stlye)
I have found it........
it is in the config.php file you must add the html tags that you would like every thing to use. when you preview the the news story before publishing it you see at the bottom [b] [i] and so on well in config.php you see this.
Code:
$AllowableHTML = array("b"=>1,
"i"=>1,
"a"=>2,
"em"=>1,
"br"=>1,
"strong"=>1,
"blockquote"=>1,
"tt"=>1,
"li"=>1,
"ol"=>1,
"p"=>1,
"tr"=>1,
"td"=>1,
"img"=>1,
"src"=>1,
"herf"=>1,
"table"=>1,
"font"=>1,
"span"=>1,
"ul"=>1);
and this is where you add the new code....
im happy now .. hope this helps people