I'm looking for something different, and perhaps you could point me in the right direction.

I run a site for women that sew and knit. We are mostly young mothers and older teen girls. This is very difficult to find in a pre-made theme that's not dark or for a role playing game.

I would like a theme that is simple, clear, and cute, with a matching forum theme. I would be happy to do it but am not sure where to begin.

I would also like a theme that matches the store theme. I sent the pictures to be added to the store, but our webmaster put them in the congo template and told me if I wanted to make my own themes go ahead but basically he didn't have time.

I like the layouts of these sites (I know they aren't phpnuke but need to start somewhere LOL)
http://verymom.com/
http://www.cuteoverload.com/
http://www.kitty-craft.com/

Our current site is here:
http://www.sewingmamas.com/PHP-Nuke/ and we have a store here:
http://congo.sewingmamas.com/congo.php

Thanks for any help or links.

Megan